Its Not Like Theyll Automatically Hate Me The Second I Send An Ask Right....?

im going mentally insane

im mentally ill

i need him

i need him so bad

sobbing at this matthew you idiot/aff

@mouse-rain here look at this :>

can you draw Canada aph chewing on a gun (>ω<)

yes ofc!

Hes having lots of fun! Chew toy!

Its has pixels over it but I'm still putting it under cut just incase <//3

Gun safety wasn't safe enough?

Ignore the mistakes and how unrealistic it is,,,,was very rushed obviously

the kitten is officially grounded until it learns how to behave

i can report that it does not like this arrangement

this kitten is impossibly stupid it decides to run around all crazy and hyper adn somehow manages to tumble into the tub of water we used to wash it

its fine yes

but fucking idiot omg

seeing ask blogs really makes me want to make one myself...

ommfgg im literally so happy over it i was worried that my request got eaten or smth BUT NOOO IT WAS JUST BAKING AND OMMFMGGGG ITS SO PRETTY EATING THEM

Writing Intimacy

i often see writers sharing a sentiment of struggling with writing kiss scenes which honestly bleeds into other portrayals of physical intimacy. i see it a lot in modernized styles of writing popularized by the recent trend in publishing to encourage short, choppy sentences and few adverbs, even less descriptive language. this makes intimacy come across awkward, like someone writing a script or clumsy recounting of events rather than a beautiful paragraph of human connection.

or just plane horniness. but hey, horny doesn't have to be mutually exclusive with poetic or sensual.

shallow example: they kissed desperately, tongues swirling and she moaned. it made her feel warm inside.

in depth example: she reached for the other woman slowly and with a small measure of uncertainty. the moment her fingers brushed the sharp, soft jaw of her companion, eliza's hesitance slid away. the first kiss was gentle when she finally closed the distance between them. she pressed her lips lightly to gabriella's in silent exploration. a tender question. gabriella answered by meeting her kiss with a firmer one of her own. eliza felt the woman's fingers curling into her umber hair, fingernails scraping along her scalp. everything inside eliza relaxed and the nervousness uncoiled from her gut. a warm buzz of energy sunk through her flesh down to the very core of her soul. this was right. this was always where she needed to be.

the first complaint i see regards discomfort in writing a kiss, feeling like one is intruding on the characters. the only way to get around this is to practice. anything that makes you uncomfortable in writing is something you should explore. writing is at its best when we are pushing the envelope of our own comfort zones. if it feels cringy, if it feels too intimate, too weird, too intrusive, good. do it anyway! try different styles, practice it, think about which parts of it make you balk the most and then explore that, dissect it and dive into getting comfortable with the portrayal of human connection.

of course the biggest part comes to not knowing what to say other than "they kissed" or, of course, the tried and true "their lips crashed and their tongues battled for dominance" 😐. so this is my best advice: think beyond the mouth. okay, we know their mouths are mashing. but what are their hands doing? are they touching one another's hair? are they scratching or gripping desperately at one another? are they gliding their hands along each other's body or are they wrapping their arms tightly to hold each other close? do they sigh? do they groan? do they relax? do they tense? are they comfortable with each other or giddy and uncertain? is it a relief, or is it bringing more questions? is it building tension or finally breaking it?

get descriptive with the emotions. how is it making the main character/pov holder feel? how are they carrying those emotions in their body? how do they feel the desire in their body? desire is not just felt below the belt. it's in the gut, it's in the chest, it's in the flushing of cheeks, the chills beneath the skin, the goosebumps over the surface of the flesh. everyone has different pleasure zones. a kiss might not always lead desire for overtly sexual touches. a kiss might lead to the desire for an embrace. a kiss might lead to the impulse to bite or lick at other areas. a kiss could awaken desire to be caressed or caress the neck, the shoulder, the back, the arms etc. describe that desire, show those impulses of pleasure and affection.

of course there is the tactile. what does the love interest taste like? what do they smell like? how do they kiss? rough and greedy? slow and sensual? explorative and hesitant? expertly or clumsily? how does it feel to be kissed by them? how does it feel to kiss them?

i.e. examine who these individuals are, what their motives and feelings are within that moment, who they are together, what it looks like when these two individuals come together. a kiss is not about the mouth. it's about opening the door to vulnerability and desire in one's entire body and soul.

──────────────────⊰∙∘☽༓☾∘∙⊱───────────────────  𝐍𝐚𝐦𝐞: 𝐀𝐬𝐡  𝐬𝐡𝐞/𝐡𝐞𝐫  4𝐭𝐞𝐞𝐧   𝐛𝐢𝐬𝐞𝐱𝐮𝐚𝐥 𝐠𝐨𝐫𝐠𝐞𝐨𝐮𝐬 𝐬𝐰𝐞𝐞𝐭 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐞 @𝐦𝐨𝐮𝐬𝐞-𝐫𝐚𝐢𝐧 ═════════════════════════════════════════════  ✦ . 　⁺ 　 . ✦ . 　⁺ 　 . ✦ . 　⁺ 　 . ✦ . 　⁺ 　 . ✦ . 　⁺ 　 . ✦ . 　⁺ 　 . ✦ .   ︶⊹︶︶୨୧︶︶⊹︶︶⊹︶︶୨୧︶︶⊹︶︶⊹︶︶୨୧︶︶⊹︶︶⊹︶︶୨୧︶                                    ꒰ঌ·𝐰𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐞𝐫/𝐚𝐫𝐭𝐢𝐬𝐭/𝐬𝐨𝐟𝐭𝐛𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐩𝐥𝐚𝐲𝐞𝐫·໒꒱ •✦•··········•✦•··········•✦•··········•✦•··········•✦•··········•✦•··········•✦•··········•✦• 𝐟𝐚𝐧𝐝𝐨𝐦𝐬 𝐢𝐦 𝐢𝐧:  ✦𝐜𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐭𝐫𝐲𝐡𝐮𝐦𝐚𝐧𝐬  ✦𝐡𝐞𝐭𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐚  ✦𝐡𝐚𝐦𝐢𝐥𝐭𝐨𝐧  ✦𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐬  ✦𝐬𝐢𝐱  ✦𝐜𝐫𝐢𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐚𝐥 𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐝𝐬    •✦•··········•✦•··········•✦•··········•✦•··········•✦•··········•✦•··········•✦•··········•✦• 𝐰𝐞𝐥𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐦𝐲 𝐛𝐥𝐨𝐠 <3 𝐢 𝐦𝐚𝐲 𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐭 𝐰𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐝𝐫𝐚𝐰𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐨𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐛𝐥𝐨𝐠. 𝐦𝐨𝐬𝐭 𝐰𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬 𝐢 𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐭 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐞𝐢𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐛𝐞 𝐩𝐨𝐞𝐦𝐬 𝐨𝐫 𝐟𝐚𝐧𝐟𝐢𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧. 𝐢𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐚𝐜𝐜𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐭 𝐠𝐫𝐨𝐰𝐬, 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐦𝐚𝐲𝐛𝐞 𝐢'𝐥𝐥 𝐨𝐩𝐞𝐧 𝐬𝐡𝐨𝐫𝐭 𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐭𝐥𝐞 𝐨𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐡𝐨𝐭 𝐫𝐞𝐪𝐮𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐬. 𝐢𝐟 𝐢 𝐝𝐨 𝐞𝐧𝐝 𝐮𝐩 𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐤𝐬 𝐨𝐟 𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐞, 𝐢 𝐡𝐨𝐩𝐞 𝐲'𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐞𝐧𝐣𝐨𝐲. 𝐢𝐟 𝐢 𝐝𝐨𝐧'𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐢 𝐡𝐨𝐩𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐞𝐧𝐣𝐨𝐲 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐲 𝐨𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐬𝐢𝐥𝐥𝐲 𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐭𝐥𝐞 𝐛𝐥𝐨𝐠.  𝐭𝐞𝐱𝐚𝐬 𝐛𝐨𝐫𝐧 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐫𝐚𝐢𝐬𝐞𝐝, 𝐩𝐫𝐮𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐚𝐧 𝐛𝐥𝐮𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐦𝐲 𝐟𝐚𝐯𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐥𝐨𝐫.  𝐚𝐝𝐡𝐝 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐛𝐥𝐲 𝐚𝐮𝐭𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐜.

𝐛𝐞 𝐧𝐢𝐜𝐞. 𝐢 𝐝𝐨 𝐍𝐎𝐓 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐧𝐬𝐟𝐰. 𝐝𝐨 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐛𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐩𝐨𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐥 𝐦𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐦𝐲 𝐛𝐥𝐨𝐠. 𝐢 𝐝𝐨 𝐛𝐥𝐨𝐜𝐤 𝐟𝐫𝐞𝐞𝐥𝐲 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐢𝐟 𝐢𝐭 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐢𝐭 𝐢 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐫𝐞𝐩𝐨𝐫𝐭. 𝐅𝐀𝐅𝐎.              ❛ ━━━━━━━━━━━━･❪ ★ ❫ ･━━━━━━━━━━━━ ❜  𝐭𝐚𝐠𝐥𝐢𝐬𝐭   ✦𝐫𝐞𝐠𝐮𝐥𝐚𝐫 𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐭𝐬 • #𝐫𝐚𝐦𝐛𝐥𝐞𝐬.𝐢𝐧.𝐬𝐡𝐚𝐦𝐛𝐥𝐞𝐬   ✦𝐰𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 • #𝐚𝐜𝐢𝐝.𝐰𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐞𝐬   ✦𝐚𝐫𝐭 • #𝐚𝐜𝐢𝐝.𝐝𝐫𝐚𝐰𝐬   ✦𝐯𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬 • #𝐚𝐜𝐢𝐝.𝐬𝐚𝐝   ✦𝐫𝐞𝐛𝐥𝐨𝐠𝐬 • #𝐚𝐜𝐢𝐝.𝐫𝐛𝐬   ✦𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐭𝐬 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐚𝐫𝐜𝐡𝐢𝐯𝐞 • #𝐚𝐜𝐢𝐝.𝐚𝐫𝐜𝐡𝐢𝐯𝐞

═════════════════════════════════════════════  ✦ . 　⁺ 　 . ✦ . 　⁺ 　 . ✦ . 　⁺ 　 . ✦ . 　⁺ 　 . ✦ . 　⁺ 　 . ✦ . 　⁺ 　 . ✦ .   ︶⊹︶︶୨୧︶︶⊹︶︶⊹︶︶୨୧︶︶⊹︶︶⊹︶︶୨୧︶︶⊹︶︶⊹︶︶୨୧︶

𝐝𝐨 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐜𝐨𝐩𝐲, 𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐞, 𝐨𝐫 𝐫𝐞𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐭 𝐦𝐲 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐤 𝐚𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐨𝐰𝐧. 𝐢𝐦𝐩𝐨𝐫𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐭𝐬 {𝐯𝐚𝐫𝐢𝐨𝐮𝐬 𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐤𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬,𝐬𝐮𝐜𝐡 𝐚𝐬 𝐚𝐨3 𝐚𝐜𝐜𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐭,𝐛𝐥𝐨𝐠 𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐦𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠,&𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫}

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i named my headphones awesome like gilbert 2000 and i sent it to my mom and she was like 'i dont understand' and then i explained it to her and she likes it

score

i can concur that the former has gotten worse someone get me out of here ;-;

guys i feel sick af and having a cast succkkkssss :(

...when did i get to the decision once that plc was prussia's father and NOT hre....?

...i dont even know where that came from

not me having a crisis over stupid countries