Call me Lark! Detrans lesbian w/ a DSD (chimerism), and 21 years old. Gender-critical. Diagnosed OCD and Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Wildlife enjoyer and proud masc lesbian.
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JKR did nothing to deserve this and it’s alarming the amount of comments that are sexually harassing in nature.
Hey gyns, if you’re on reddit, please go support r/TheLezistance. It’s a safe space for lesbians to vent and talk about how TRAs and the modern LGBT community have been erasing and abusing them for years now. Of course, many of the members are TERFs and radfems so it’s under a lot of scrutiny from TRAs.
I wish I’d known about the sub sooner but I found out about it today because of this post on r/GenderCynical (a sub making fun of gender critical beliefs) trying to get them banned, which I think is absolutely disgusting and homophobic. This is all because they don’t want to date trans women. Btw here are TRAs confirming that they ban safe spaces for gay men and lesbians:
I’m not a lesbian so I won’t post or comment there but I joined to show support. You should too. TRAs get every radfem sub banned.
In the meantime I’ll be reporting r/GenderCynical and r/EnoughJKRowling because they’re also classified as “hate groups” according to their logic.
Why don't "femboys" ever wanna dress like normal cute girls. Why don't they ever wanna wear Lululemon or whatever. Or H&M. Why do they only want to dress like absolute dogshit. Like the goofiest fucking anime girl caricature.
TRAs will be like "omg I love women 🥰" and be talking about full-on men with dicks and balls
Getting the "girls can do anything and still be a girl" talk is like being handed a sword. Being told “maybe you’re a boy” when you stray from the mold? That’s a cage.
One says: you’re real.
The other says: you’re wrong.
You were never wrong. You were always you. And anyone who tried to un-girl you for not being soft enough, quiet enough, pink enough? They were scared of a girl who didn’t need permission to exist.
You didn’t need to change. The world needs to catch up.
You know that feeling when you spread your wings like you've been grounded forever, feathers tangled in the wires of their expectations and suddenly, the wind catches you? The air’s not heavy anymore, it's freedom.They tell you you're too wild for a cage, that you should be smaller, quieter, tamer. But they don’t understand you’ve always been meant to fly. Maybe you haven't even figured out your full wingspan yet, but every time you stretch, you feel the sky, vast and endless, waiting.
You were never meant to stay in the nest they built for you. The moment you left, you started becoming the bird you were always supposed to be. They can keep their cages. You’ll keep your flight.
Or something like that, I like birds....
the "man-hating lesbians" are on your side. the "old hags" are on your side. the "bitter divorcee women" are on your side. the "bitter childless women" are on your side. the "evil heartless witches" are on your side. the "evil abortionist women" are on your side. the "terfs and swerfs" are on your side. men will always rather you think otherwise.
I’m going to start calling myself a feminine energy lifestyle coach and selling my services which are mostly just suggesting that they try lesbian sex and wear more practical clothing
"TERFs reduce women to their genitals and reproductive organs!"
So why are you crowdfunding "bottom" surgery in your bio? Why is having the genitalia of the opposite sex so important to you? Why do you get envious of the opposite sex for their ability to get pregnant, have periods etc? Why are you so desperate to claim you're having a period when you start hormones?
If gender expression has nothing to do with genitalia and reproductive organs, why are you so desperate to change yours? If a woman is not someone who was born with the female reproductive organs and genitalia, why are you having "bottom" surgery?
I don't think it's me reducing women to their genitalia and reproductive organs...
noo nope. nope. transwimmin can’t be radfems full stop i can’t deal with TIRFS
i'm not going to lie. i would do this all the time
It’s suffocating, how gender ideology has made me feel like it’s not safe to be openly lesbian.
Lesbians in gender ideology are put under the microscope. It feels like as soon as they find out a woman is a lesbian, anything she says can be grounds for the feared “TERF” accusations. Because to gender ideologues, lesbianism is inherently “terfy” because it is inherently male-exclusionary. Lesbians are automatically looked at with suspicion that we might be “terfs”, and it’s on us to break our backs proving otherwise.
I feel like if I’m talking to somebody who I know believes in gender ideology, I can’t mention I’m gay even if it’s relevant. Because I know that’s enough to alert them to keep me under close watch.
It’s frustrating, because they claim to be allies to gay people—sometimes they even claim to be gay themselves. But when confronted with true homosexuality, they see it as a threat, and they make sure we know that.
And I’m sure this is why so many lesbians seem to end up leaving gender ideology behind. Because it gets exhausting feeling like you either need to stay closeted, or constantly prove yourself to not be like those “cis” lesbians. And no proof will ever be enough, because your sexuality itself is enough for them to hate you.
"separatism/anti-natalism is so unrealistic. it won't fix the problem." okay and marrying men worked? bearing their children worked? educating them worked? transing your gender worked? did the patriarchy stop when you wore eyeliner "sharp enough to kill a man"? did it stop when you got a mastectomy? did it come to a screeching halt when you said "sex work is work" and "not all men"? bffr
"I wish I wasn't that way" honey you're a lesbian and you have absolutely nothing to be ashamed of. You're surrounded by conversion therapy rhetoric and it's wrong. You aren't having a "genital preference" - you like women. The entire female form. You're a female homosexual. It's okay to be a lesbian.
There is nothing wrong with you. You shouldn't have to hide in order to pacify a mans ego.
Transgenderism is, and always has been, a male supremacy movement. Don’t forget that
wow
I yet again ask you gyns to try and use "tim" and "tif".
I see "trans man" and "trans woman" slipped into our collective vocabulary and was uncritically adopted. That's not good at all.
i just want a job
like i understand it can get a little tricky to tell someone's sex when all your human interaction takes place in text-based conversations without pictures, but the rest of us go outside
"I'm pretty with makeup"
"I'm pretty without makeup"
Radical feminism: "It doesn't matter if you're pretty at all. You don't exist to be pretty."
"Female body hair is okay"
"Female body hair is not okay"
Radical Feminism: "Female body hair simply exists and is completely neutral. Talking about whether its 'okay' doesn't even make sense."
"Presenting THIS way makes you a man"
"Presenting THIS way makes you a woman"
Radical feminism: "Nothing about the way you present makes you a man or woman. Gender isn't real."
I love that radical feminism just removes you from so many binaries of thought. It makes them completely nonsensical. Why would I analyze whether I'm pretty when it doesn't matter either way? Why is the acceptability of my body hair even a subject of discussion? It merely exists, just like the bark on a tree. Does society sit around and debate whether a tree ought to be able to keep its bark?
I've come to realize that I've been handed a ton of "either/or" choices about who I am all my life and told to make a decision on each one. And they were all illusions! I just exist. I never had to justify the way I am or even formulate an opinion on it.
istg men do this all the time
If it's fine to say heterosexual and bisexual, then it's fine to say homosexual.
Resist the demonization and erasure of language that permits gays and lesbians to articulate our realities.
the rabbit, deemed meek, powerless and frail by the wolves, dawns the faux skin of a wolf to hide herself from the world
with this skin, she hopes the wolves will see her as strong and powerful, just as the wolves are perceived as
she hopes the wolves respect her as if she was one of their own.
the wolf, deemed powerful, superior and strong by his fellow wolves, dawns the faux skin of a rabbit for easier preying,
with this skin, he hopes his meal, to satiate his gluttonous pleasures, will come easier if he mimics his food,
he hopes he's seen as meek and frail, just he perceives the rabbits around him to be.
the rabbit ventures on through the forest to the meeting spot of the wolves, tripping on the oversized pelt of the wolf hanging loosely off the sides of her body,
the pelt doesn't fit her, it never will, but she tries in vain to feel powerful in a society that tells her she can't be.
the wolf ventures on through the forest to the meeting spot of the rabbits, the pelt of the rabbit draped over his shoulders keeps falling off onto the dirt and the hide is too small to cover what he truly is; a wolf
the pelt doesn't fit him, it never will, but he continues on in order to satiate his hunger, his lust.
the two meet in a clearing, both coming to a halt as their eyes lock.
the rabbit knows what she's looking at
her stomach churns with a nauseating anxiety
her pulse skyrockets
even if she's never experienced it herself, she's heard stories from her fellow rabbits of wolves hunting them down to violate them
going as far as to eat their young and their dead as he knows they can't defend themselves like the adults can
how stupid of her, to think the wolves would treat her as equal after everything they've done to her kind.
the wolf knows what he's looking at,
his stomach churns and growls,
the rush of adrenaline hits him, and yet he seems calm as his paws step towards her,
slowly.
the wolf has seen his friends stalk, hunt, and kill, never doing anything to stop them.
the rabbits feel pain, agony, misery, he knows it, but yet he doesn't even try to stop his friends from violating the rabbit's life.
but then again,
why would he stop it when he enjoys it as well?
the rabbit, even after wearing the clothes of a wolf, learning the walk of a wolf, learning to growl and howl like a wolf,
won't save her from being eaten by the wolf, violated by the wolf, her land taken and tainted by the wolf,
she will never be respected as a wolf respects wolf, or as a rabbit trying to save herself respects wolf.
the wolf, even after wearing the clothes of a rabbit, learning the walk of a rabbit, learning how to squeak and teeth-grind like a rabbit,
won't stop the rabbits from fearing him, hating him and his kind for their violent acts against their kind,
but he couldn't care less.
Loneliness, when experienced by women, is treated like a joke. The stereotypical image of the crazy cat lady, the spinster, the old maid, has been mocked for centuries. A warning to other women not to be too selective, too cautious, too discerning, too demanding, or else you'll end up like her. A laughing stock.
But when men are "lonely" (ie. when women become more aware as a class and won't engage with manchildren), suddenly it's an epidemic- a crisis requiring analysis by sociologists and psychologists and hundreds and hundreds of articles dissecting why these poor men are so lonely, as though their loneliness reaches some special depth unknown to women.