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Pls share any obscure/lost media u know, I'm trying to do research on it and I seek for any of this

hey girl im back from hiatus check out my funny art

Hey so I see Kat (@equation-playground), despite us already promising not to post about each other anymore, has already made another post about me on here.

I would like to say I was unwillingly part of proshipping and was originally groomed into it as a child. I deeply regret everything and it was extremely traumatic for me. I'm sorry if that doesn't change things for you but it's important to mention the full context. I do not want to be associated with those freaks anymore, please stop associating me with them. It is paranoia inducing.

Please, stop spreading outdated info about me.

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Mr Uppity have the most over exaggerated, cartoonish hated towards Mr Perfect, like he totally would go bonkers if u mentioned this blue ład around him

mr uppity hates him so much (cough cough one sided) that he keeps a nicely framed picture of him on his mantel to remind him of how AWFUL mr perfect is ;o]

One bad experience with a man doesnt give you the right to judge the entire gender.

Ten bad experiences with men doesn’t give you the right to judge the entire gender.

Not a hundred, or a million or any number of bad experiences with men. Unless you’ve personally met every single man on the planet and had a bad experience with them, you have no right to judge the entire gender.

Same goes with white people, straight people, cis people, or any group of people that exists. No amount of bad experiences gives you the right to express bigotry towards an entire gender and absolve you of your bigotry unless you’ve met every person in that group.

Scientists uncover a stone with writing on it that no one can make sense of. When you see it for the first time, you can read it perfectly.

disabled adults don’t have “the brains of children” they have the brains of adults with disabilities. just because you can’t understand the difference doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist

Let’s talk about xenogenders

Definition: A nonbinary gender identity that cannot be contained by human understandings of gender; more concerned with crafting other methods of gender categorization and hierarchy such as those relating to animals, plants, or other creatures/things. It’s mainly an umbrella term for genders with themes such as nouns, archetypes, synesthetic experiences, neurodivergences.

Are xenogenders serious? Usually, yes. (But at the same time… What if they aren’t? To be fair, being trans/nonbinary doesn’t always have to be this imagined experience of constant suffering. We’re allowed to describe our lived experience of gender in flowery ways, too!)

Do xenogenders hurt real trans people? No, but if you’re asking this question, I want to ask one in return - What are you defining as a “real” trans person?Is someone only really trans/nonbinary if they can pass? Or have dysphoria? Or get surgery? Or are accepted by cis people? It’s important to understand that what one might think of when they think “real trans person” might be rooted in excluding a majority of the trans population.

But MOGAI genders/xenogenders/neolabels are why people don’t take us seriously! Trying to blame other people who’re trying to find terms to describe their gender/orientation/etc is a slippery slope, and trying to guilt people back into the closet to appease cishet people is never going to work. We do not exist to be palatable to them. This line of thinking is extremely dangerous, and it’s been applied to every other identity. As a community, we need to stand together against transphobia and it’s actual cause: Transphobes.

While xenogenders can be hard to understand at first, these terms are coined because someone out there was genuinely struggling to find a label that felt fitting, and found that their actual life experience couldn’t be described accurately by more common descriptors like “male,” “female,” “neutral,” and that describing their experience by relating it to something else truly helped them! Sometimes this will be things that seem “silly,” like media, aesthetics, and other unique things.

You may not understand how something can be a gender, and that’s okay! Sometimes we won’t be able to completely understand an experience because it’s one we will never have, and that doesn’t mean that the experience is invalid. It’s just how being a human works!