Random Caregiver Comforting Clips

oh to have a real agere daycare!

everyone would have hooks with their names above to hang up their coats and little cubbys to put their belongings in! carers could sign their babies in or regressors could do it themslves with the help of a carer on staff! <3 it'd be such a warm, welcoming, judgement free place where everyone can safely be themslves...💭

there would be a quiet, soft and safe room for baby regressors to crawl around and play with toys! so many foam blocks to build with and stuffies to cuddle! there would be highchairs for snacks, and little inside tents for the babies that like to play alone and cribs for nap time with little nature themed mobiles above them!

and for the tots and kiddos, there would be baskets upon baskets of toys, from cars to barbies, to action figures! and there'd be a huge playground and field outside for recess! we'd have hopscotch, four-square, jungle gyms, swings, and so many slides... there's be pavement to color with chalk, bubbles to blow, tricycles and scooters to ride! and in the field, kiddos can play soccer and tag with one another <3

there'd be a community garden where our little helpers can pitch in and we'd grow all sorts of fruits, veggies, and plants! and at the end of each harvesting season, our leaflings will all get to take something home with them!

for the middles, they'd have their own room with game consoles, just dance, a computer lab, a craft station, and much more! we'd make super cool crafts like origami, mini plushies, bracelets, and more! there'd be a free library full of picture and chapter books to read, a cozy nature-themed reading corner with bean bags and a fake tree with animal hand puppets to play with!

little leaf daycare would be so amazing, don't you think?

Having an MtF Little Means…

*MtF is Male to Female, someone who was not born genetically female but identifies or is transitioning to such*

Taking them shopping and helping them pick out pretty clothes or dresses

Telling them that they are beautiful

Reminding them not to tuck for more than 8 hours, and to take one day off a week from tucking

Being understanding when you have to cancel plans because they are too dysphoric

Telling them what a cute tiny baby they are

Understanding that they may not want to be touched sometimes because of dysphoria 

Reminding them that their toy preferences is not an indication of gender (Trucks and toy tools are for girls too!)

Helping them with E shots if they’re afraid of needles

Understanding that tantrums may be caused by dysphoria and not punishing them for it

Helping them find cute feminine baby clothes that they like

Reminding them that they will get the surgeries that they want someday (and that they are still valid even if they don’t want surgery)

Helping care for them during surgery recovery

Asking if they are okay with you correcting others when they get misgendered

Reminding them that it is perfectly okay if they do not want to tuck

Understanding that they may not be out to friends or family, and asking them how they would like you to refer to them when around others

Learning what phrases or actions can trigger dysphoria and avoiding them

Unless they say otherwise, don’t talk about how they “used to look”

Helping them through dysphoric episodes

Reminding them that toys, clothes, cartoons, and other baby things don’t have genders

Using pet names such as “Baby Girl” “Little Girl” “Princess” etc.

Reminding them that when they take a break from tucking they are not less of a woman

Not over-correcting yourself if you slip up. It happens, sometimes a “Prince” or a “he” will slip out. They get it. The best thing you can do is just say sorry and then say the correct name/pronoun. Please do not go on and on and on about how you’re sorry and explaining why you slipped up and how they need to give you more time. This goes for any trans person, regressor or not. It’s making a mountain out of a molehill and it can make them feel worse than the actual slip up.

𝘛𝘸𝘪𝘯𝘬𝘭𝘦, 𝘵𝘸𝘪𝘯𝘬𝘭𝘦, 𝘭𝘪𝘵𝘵𝘭𝘦 𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘳, 𝘏𝘰𝘸 𝘐 𝘸𝘰𝘯𝘥𝘦𝘳 𝘸𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘢𝘳𝘦! 𝘜𝘱 𝘢𝘣𝘰𝘷𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘭𝘥 𝘴𝘰 𝘩𝘪𝘨𝘩, 𝘓𝘪𝘬𝘦 𝘢 𝘤𝘶𝘱𝘤𝘢𝘬𝘦 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘴𝘬𝘺. 𝘛𝘸𝘪𝘯𝘬𝘭𝘦, 𝘵𝘸𝘪𝘯𝘬𝘭𝘦, 𝘭𝘪𝘵𝘵𝘭𝘦 𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘳, 𝘠𝘰𝘶'𝘳𝘦 𝘮𝘺 𝘤𝘶𝘥𝘥𝘭𝘺 𝘥𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘮 𝘣𝘺 𝘧𝘢𝘳!

𝘚𝘱𝘢𝘳𝘬𝘭𝘦, 𝘴𝘱𝘢𝘳𝘬𝘭𝘦, 𝘨𝘭𝘰𝘸𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵, 𝘚𝘯𝘶𝘨𝘨𝘭𝘦 𝘮𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘳𝘰𝘶𝘨𝘩 𝘴𝘭𝘦𝘦𝘱𝘺 𝘯𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵. 𝘚𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘺 𝘣𝘦𝘢𝘮𝘴 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘤𝘰𝘻𝘺 𝘩𝘶𝘨𝘴, 𝘍𝘭𝘰𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘴𝘰𝘧𝘵 𝘭𝘪𝘬𝘦 𝘤𝘰𝘵𝘵𝘰𝘯 𝘱𝘶𝘧𝘧𝘴. 𝘛𝘸𝘪𝘯𝘬𝘭𝘦, 𝘵𝘸𝘪𝘯𝘬𝘭𝘦, 𝘭𝘪𝘵𝘵𝘭𝘦 𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘳, 𝘚𝘵𝘢𝘺 𝘣𝘦𝘴𝘪𝘥𝘦 𝘮𝘦, 𝘯𝘦𝘢𝘳 𝘰𝘳 𝘧𝘢𝘳.

activities to do with your carer .ᐟ 🦇

ꪆৎ puddle hunting !

my cg takes me out on little drives when it rains and we find loads of puddles to splash through, it’s so fun !

ꪆৎ tea party !

get all your stuffies together and some little snacks and host a tea party! your cg can be your special guest hdhdh

ꪆৎ build a fort !

this is really nostalgic for me! you can watch some cartoons together or play some games :3

ꪆৎ board games !

i love playing board games so much, easy things like connect 4 and snakes & ladders are so fun !!

ꪆৎ story time !

your carer can read you little story books OR you could get a learn to read book ! picture books so your carer can point to animals and stuff and ask you what they are :3

ꪆৎ nature walk !

you could have a little regression scrap book and collect leaves and stuff to put in or collect pretty rocks or find some puddles !

ꪆৎ a bubble bath !

i personally love bath time i have so many toys for it, if effort is put in it can be such a fun activity especially before bedtime ! you can get bath pens and baby bubble bath !

(of course only if you’re comfortable with your carer being there for this)

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⭐tuck ins🌙

hey there little one! getting pretty late again, i think its time for bed, don't you?

when the blankets fall over you, slip over the sleepy eyes just begging to fall closed, you'll feel the world shift, spin and swirl; sheets rising to a castle of your own rule stitched together with spinning, shining strands of memory and laughter passed with the days sun now tucking away, tucking away as you too should be doing now. let the walls and spires tower and pillar above you as you give not a single stir in night passing time.

what is this? this place you now find yourself in?

this is the castle of dream's, little one, and this castle you rule in the fortress of sleep. this is the castle where anything can be.

so shut your eyes and milky moons light holds you in her arms, let the breese beyond shut curtains hum you the lullaby of natures tender touch, let it lull you sleep as spiraling stairs and towers rise and fold to knit together over your sleepy little head, let the sheets pull you under and pillows soften your fall as you slip away to this, yes, castle of dreams.

goodnight little one, sleep well in your castle, your castle of dreams.🌙

These seem soooo funnnn

PlayPens 🪁

I want you to remember:

The fascists hate you too and they just will pretend otherwise until after they've killed the rest of us, before they turn on you.

My babies that I don’t draw much but I still love <3

I love love loveeee pigtails

Thinkin about my cg puttin my hair up in pigtails… makin me look all cute :3

pottery 101