♠️Ace/Kaito♠️ |Read My DNI| |Anti-Exclusionist||BLM & All Cops Are Bastardized (ACAB)|It/its, Star/Stars Preferred| They/Them|Genderfluid | Bi | White
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or identifying as only nonbinary. for example, i'm genderfluid which is under the enby umbrella yet many think nonbinary is a singular gender and not a spectrum/umbrella.
a lot of y’all out here making posts about how much you support enbies but will invalidate them if they don’t fit the mold.
the mold is white, naturally androgynous, non aligned, short hair, really skinny, afab, actively transitioning, identifing as trans, binding, pansexual or asexual, listening to indie or alt music, has a goblincore aesthetic, and maybe dyed hair.
i’m just saying if this is the ONLY type of nonbinary person you support, you’re enbyphobic.
nonbinary people can be poc, lesbian, gay, bi, amab, binary aligned, not transistioning, not identifying as trans, fat, and overall not fit your “ùwú enby space babey” aesthetic.
stop treating our identities like things to be discussed or debated NO MATTER WHAT SIDE YOURE ON. nonbinary people are nonbinary and are valid, end of convo. our validity was NEVER up for debate. periodt.
if you take away one thing from this, let it be to LISTEN TO NONBINARY PPL.
- sincerely, a very pissed black autistic bisexual nonbinary person who uses neogenders and has she/her/he/him/cat/cats/nya/nyas pronouns
i'm the exact opposite, i get so carried away i don't drink for hours.
Anyone else drink water while they daydream? Like as well as pacing or playing with a pen or something, I take a sip of water every minute or something, and then I end up drinking about 3 or 4 litres a day without realising.
If I'm the only one, I will not be suprised.
EEEEEE WHAT LAWRENCE SAID
If you don’t support people who use neopronouns, or trans people in general, please kindly get off my page. The people using neopronouns are not hurting anyone, nor are they making the community look like a joke. People hate trans people because they’re transphobic, not because some kid uses xe/xem or pup/pupself. I support all of you guys, and I am willing to lose hundreds of followers on this. If my followers are transphobic and ableist, I don’t want them. Have a great day!
Fungus? In the color of my pride flag? Yes.
Hey, I'm very happy to say I'm aroace. After years of debating my orientation and being like 'but i thought this person was cute yesterday' or confusing romantic attraction with squishes I realize it's okay to accept myself.
Have a good day everyone :)
hell yeah
When people hear the word “transgender” typically they think of the gorgeous models and actresses in the media. These are not the only people that deserve rights and recognition. There are trans women who have a hard time “passing” and living up to cishet men’s idea of “womanhood.” There are trans men who are severely under-represented in the media. There are also of course non-binary people who very few see represented and respected outside of queer spaces.
Ergo, trans rights are for ALL trans people, not just those that cishet men find attractive enough to deserve them.
i really like this one <3
A gender that’s related to foxes but more quiet? Like, groves and burrows and the woods
vulpacagender: a gender that is related to foxes, but is more quiet and less hectic. may also have an aesthetic association with groves and burrows.
Why are we trying to please our oppressors anyways?
Lemme tell you, if they find it weird someone is using neopronouns/going by a MOGAI gender and 'out of the blue' say they don't support trans rights anymore:
They were already transphobic they just wanted to find a reason to hate the community.
Hot take: There’s no such thing as “transtrenders”. They’re just young people, often teenagers, who are just trying to figure out their gender identity and become comfortable in themselves. Bullying them does no-one a favor. Fellow trans people are not what’s holding you back from becoming “acceptable” in a cis-dominant society, transphobes are.
Even on days when I feel cis I don't like she/her pronouns and that is largely due to me never feeling completely like a girl. The most I get to that is a demigirl.
I literally go by every pronoun (yes, even neopronouns since those are my favorite and they are fucking valid) except she/her which is unfortunately what everyone I'm not out to calls me 😃
Also pronouns aren't attached to gender as they are literally just words and gender is a fucking social construct anyway.
i go by them fuck yeah
So I have like 15 names and I keep adding more everyday. My main two with people I know irl is (Ares/Ace) but man do I have a lot I go by in every other situation. I fucking love it. Why choose when I can have multiple fucking cool names?
it is my good indecisive trans right to have as many names as i like. after all it’s harmless, it’s fun, it’s sexy, and it’s free.
jdhdhdigdye 💀😭👏
“you changed” yes i realised gender is a hoax
Read this and read it again.
Demigirl
so this is more for myself-
i'm curious to see how much my gender changes (I'm genderfluid) and what it changes to so I'll probably repeatedly reblog this with my gender shshhs
Beautiful!! 🥺
Kuromi based Demigirl moodboard! ^^ For an anon, hope you like this!!
Want one? Send an ask whenever~~ -mod Jay
so this is more for myself-
i'm curious to see how much my gender changes (I'm genderfluid) and what it changes to so I'll probably repeatedly reblog this with my gender shshhs
I like this one too hshsgd
Hugo (Kipo and The Age of Wonderbeasts) based Ace moodboard~ ^^ For @regal-bastard-man! Hope you like this!
Want one? Send an ask! -mod Jay
pretty, yes i like this very much 🥰
glowwave alien pansexual moodboard
Just in case any of you were wondering what an m-spec lesbian was
what’s an mspec lesbian
I'm glad you asked,dear anon. An m-spec lesbian is any sapphic that identifies with both an m-spec label and the lesbian label. (M-spec means multispectrum,so any orientation attracted to more than one gender.) So they may be romantically attracted to multiple genders,but sexually attracted to women and feminine genders. Or they are attracted to all genders excluding men. They could be reclaiming the label lesbian, as it used mean any woman who had relationships with women,no matter the sexuality. This ended in the lesbian separatist movement of th 1970's. Finally, you have those that use it to show they prioritize their attraction to women, for whatever reason.
I'm not aro but reblogging just because i love frogs
a new and improved stack of friends
stickers are available here
[ tw for this post, it mentions sex/sex-repulsion a few times (just the word, nothing else) and i get heated/angry talking about it. this isn’t directed at anyone, i’m just pissed off about acephobia. ]
I think a lot of people get hung up on some ace people not liking sex or thinking it’s gross/repulsive on a personal level. Even in 2020. And I’m getting sick of it.
Even other aspec people I’ve spoken to have legitimately gotten pissed off at ace people who are averse to it. I feel like a lot of y’all only accept ace people if it’s the ones who are just as okay with sex/sexual topics/etc. as you are, and I can and WILL call you out on it when it happens. Sex-averse ace people deserve just as much goddamn respect as any other ace person.
There is a BIG difference between being sex negative and sex averse/repulsed. I’m personally very sex-averse, but you don’t see me stopping anyone else? Ace people do not walk around and claim that sex is objectively bad, and if you genuinely think we do this shit on a massive scale then you might want to try actually talking to an ace person and not exclusionists a few times in your life.
If us asking for you to, I dunno, talk about it somewhere else where it won’t make us uncomfortable, spoiler it, or maybe just tone it down a little bit, feels like being “sex negative” to you, then I genuinely worry how you treat other people and topics that make them uncomfortable. Y’all respect people’s discomfort and squicks until that person is ace and it shows.
Oh and if you try and tell me this isn’t an issue, that nobody is actually doing this, I will personally put crabs in your pillows. This shit is so constant I have the (dis)pleasure of seeing it in spaces I am apparently supposed to be welcomed in. My discomfort is not respected even in spaces that I’ve made myself. I’m laughed at and not taken seriously and viewed as childish/naive for not liking or understanding extremely sexual conversations/jokes even in my own friend-groups, and even around other aspec people, and even after I ask people to stop multiple times. Do not tell me what I, a sex-repulsed ace person, “actually” experience.
We’re allowed to joke about it being weird and not something we like. We Are Allowed To Not Like Sex, Guys.
it really shows just how many people took blm and treated it like some trend and dropped it after all the hype went down.
black lives still fucking matter and try to support in anyway you can. it isn't a cutesy aesthetic nor is it something you should use for brownie points.
Married straight couples are the only heterophobes I know.
"My wife is gonna kill me if I do that!"
"Gotta go home to the ol' ball and chain."
Hello, just a reminder-
Trans people are supported by science so your argument of 'well, i bElEVe in sCiEnCe.' is invalid...
unlike my existence.
I'm going to spam memes
Gen Z: Did you know that atoms can't touch each other? And since we're all made of atoms, we've never actually touched anything in our entire lives.
Gen X: ...
Gen Z: So to answer your question, no I didn't punch that cop.